Another year is approaching. 2020 has been draining in so many ways. Physically, with all the health problems. Emotionally, with all the distance that came with "social distancing". Mentally, with trying to keep everything together and running smoothly. I would love to say I juggled everything in perfect harmony, however, the truth was I tripped and rolled through the goal posts often. Now, it is time to take action and make some changes.
Dietary changes take center stage
All but mozzarella cheese
Fried or greasy foods - fries, onion rings, egg rolls, fried chicken
Tomato sauces
Bacon
Ground beef
Peanut butter
Then, for a while after I had 3 wisdom teeth pulled and couldn't eat anything too hard so pudding, yogurt and soups became my staples. Even then, eating or drinking cold things triggered pain. (Still do.) Especially when I developed dry socket. Around this time, my husband started having severe heartburn issues. Indigestion and heartburn can make an overnight stocking job extremely difficult. It is like having fire in your chest that tries to spill out every time he bends over. We both had to start taking the generic for Prilosec to treat GERD symptoms.
It was at this point that we decided to substitute some things while taking out the carbs that are more dangerous. Instead of regular rice, we are now trying to add in cauliflower rice as often as possible. We make smoothies for one of the meals we have instead of eating a full meal. Most days, neither of us eat breakfast. I'm not much of a breakfast person. And since he works overnight, when he comes home - he just wants a shower and bed. If he has breakfast, it is typically granola cereal. I scoured Pinterest for ideas and decided that we needed to start having protein and veggies a lot more. My favorites are the variations on taco bowls. Super simple to put together, easy to make ahead, and tasty to boot! We have even started adding spinach to both smoothies and these veggie bowls I make. Doesn't seem like a big change, but I think it is taking off really well for us.
Drink until you feel bloated!
I had a doctor tell me that I needed to drink until I felt bloated. Or until I felt like I was drowning. I don't suggest the latter phrase. But you should never feel thirsty. I once heard it as, "When you feel thirsty, your body is already dehydrating." So we have a new way to gauge how much water we are drinking. I have 3 water bottles that are 16.9 ounces each. I have labeled them E1, E2, E3. I also made a set for him. This way, I know I'm getting at least 6 of those8 - 8 ounce water glasses that are suggested to stay truly hydrated. Sadly, my husband has seen that he may have an electrolyte imbalance as he drinks until he feels bloated and still feels thirsty. If that is the case for you, you need to add in electrolyte drinks (something like Gatorade, just find lower sugar ones).
Physical activity is a must!
Our biggest problem comes in working out. Or should I say, the lack of working out. We invested in a pull up bar. Not the best one on the market, but it has worked. My husband has some amazing upper body strength, whereas my strength has always been in the legs. He can pull himself up fully with his arms. I have to do it with my legs already propped up...
My sister-in-law shared a downloadable book with me. Now, I'm not as tough as her. She can work all day, come home and work out for at least an hour, and then deal with her family. And I thought I was Wonder Woman! But as much as that makes me feel inferior sometimes, it can also push me to work harder. I start small. But I plan to finish big.
Starting small, ending big!
You know what I keep hearing? That you need to change something a little at a time to work up to the big change. What does that mean? Take my diet, for instance. I had an internal organ removed. After doing so, I learned which foods messed me up. Mostly by eating those things and paying the price afterwards. I like to think of myself as an intelligent person, however, that doesn't mean my stubborn streak stays under control. I don't like being told what I can or can't do, eat, etc.. So of course I had to try to eat those foods and suffer the painful consequences after to realize that was a stupid decision. Now, I leave those things out. But it is trial and error.
So my advice to you is to start small. Cut out one food at a time. Or two. Do one kind of workout, or two, per day. Fill up your 15 minutes a day with those until you get a routine started. Then add something else. If you try to start big, I can almost guarantee that you will fail. You will give up. Why? Because it feels impossible. I should know. I've been trying for 4 years to get back on track. Time and again, I've quit. I've walked away. Now, I don't have a choice. The pain has gotten stronger, the back has gotten weaker and now I'm having to deal with other health problems growing.
Dancing our way to health
We have decided to turn on a Just Dance game for our daily workout. You want to talk about working out? Dancers are fit for the one reason that their movements are often strenuous. We get our hearts pumping, start sweating and it only takes about 4-5 songs to fill 15 minutes. We also are both competitive, so it pushes us to work harder to beat each other in fun. It goes by so much quicker than we thought. We love it! Even the toddler will join in. Once we are ready, I have a fit game that does simple, but deep workouts and keeps counts for us. But for you? Do what you love. Walking make your day? Then do it! It is low impact, but you can go at your pace. If you have access to a pool (YMCA has them indoors), do laps. I told my husband I want to try to get a membership with them so that I can workout without tearing up my back more. Water aerobics are great for that. You don't feel the strain. And remember, 15 minutes a day is what you need. Every thing over that is just a bonus accomplishment.
